A Hand in the Bush: The Art of Vaginal Fisting

28 May

by Madeline Iva

I went to Chicago over Memorial Day Weekend.  Lurv Chicago! Down in Andersonville, a Swedish/Persian neighborhood I enjoyed falafel with fesenjan – a pomegranate walnut sauce. (I almost died with pleasure.) I was out with my friend–who dragged me over to this tiny sex store she’s been dying to check out for months.

Well *that* was fun! So many dildos, so little time!

Whether you like alien style penetration,

For some folks, it's not fun unless it looks like it came from another planet.

For some folks, it’s not fun unless it looks like it came from another planet.

or prefer the more ‘natural’ look,imag0160

or the Betty White discount dildos bucket — you’ll be a happy camper in this shop.

The pic of Betty White kills me!

The pic of Betty White kills me!

It’s such a small store, but has so much to offer.  Not just the more pricey items like lingerie, paddles, ropes, a sling set, but also some icy-cooling balm for the nipples call Nip Zip. $_35-1 (I’ve also heard sucking on a spearmint life saver before oral can make for a low-cost tingling-cooling experience as well.)

Finally –I saw this fascinating little book:39100-A-Hand-in-the-Bush

Slack jawed, I looked closer.  While the title couldn’t be better–the black glove made me squicky with curiosity — (???) Yet I thought the book worth mentioning.  Apparently vaginal fisting is not just for queer folk anymore.  Here’s what Goodreads says:

Vaginal fisting – the intimate, potent sexual act of gradually inserting the entire hand into the vagina is an increasingly popular form of sexplay among lesbians, bisexuals and heterosexuals alike. Now, for the first time, an experienced fister and fistee explains in detail how to fist with the greatest possible safety and pleasure. Extensively illustrated, this long-awaited guide by Deborah Addington has been approved by three fisting-positive physicians and by many experienced practitioners. Also includes an eye-opening section of anecdotes and poetry by fisting-lovers, plus an extensive resource guide. A must-have “handbook” for the sexually explorative! (bold quotes my own.)

THREE fisting-positive physicians! Well — you can’t beat that, can ya? ; >

So, if you’re looking for something new and fun to try when it’s summer time and the living is easy, check out this book and check out that cooling balm.  Think twice, though, before googling images for the term vaginal fisting.  (Just sayin’.) If you’re really intrigued though, here’s an interesting interview with the author at VICE magazine.

Stay cool — and follow us this summer at LadySmut.com for a little afternoon delight.  Have you signed up for our Goodreads anthology giveaway? You can right HERE.DarkDesires

4 Responses to “A Hand in the Bush: The Art of Vaginal Fisting”

  1. Tiffany N. York May 29, 2015 at 6:55 pm #

    I’m no prude, but am I the only one who has “gynecological exam” come to mind when looking at that book cover?

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    • Madeline Iva May 31, 2015 at 10:36 am #

      Why a black glove? That’s what I keep asking myself. Why a black glove?

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  2. Elizabeth Shore May 28, 2015 at 9:25 pm #

    Hmm. Well, that’s one way to feel full. Hehehehe.

    I’ve heard the same thing you did with the peppermint, only I’ve heard about it pertaining to Altoids.

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  3. Madeline Iva May 28, 2015 at 7:48 am #

    Reblogged this on madeline iva and commented:
    Just a sweet little blog post about this tiny little sex shop I visited on my vacation.

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