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  • Post authorKel

    I dislike any “do/do not” rules for relationships. Every relationship is different, just like every person is different. Some relationships will need “same bedtimes” some relationships will die a fast and hard death if the participants try to force themselves to adopt each other’s sleep schedules. The things that work for me (blunt, direct, self-confident, openly affectionate) will not work for someone else who isn’t me. The things I find endearing would be distressing at best, and potentially destructive at worst for someone who is my opposite. The sort of person who wants a fairy-tale prince to come save them from… oh, the locked door would be horrified by every step of my ideal relationship, while I would find theirs stifling and restrictive almost immediately. Neither of us is wrong, we’re just different people.

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